Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

Chesko (The Speech Prof) and Regan (F the Nice Guy Podcast) co-host and share social commentary and comedy about some of the worst people on the internet.

Recent Episodes
  • I Based My Personality On A Discredited Wolf Study
    Apr 14, 2025 – 51:00
  • Be My Mommy and My Martyr
    Apr 7, 2025 – 59:56
  • Age of the Incels!
    Apr 2, 2025 – 01:01:56
  • Celebrating One Year Of Mr Pick Me & The Man Hater!
    Mar 17, 2025 – 01:00:03
  • You Are Not Han Solo, Chad.
    Mar 11, 2025 – 51:56
  • I Hate You, Now Let Me Date You!
    Feb 24, 2025 – 01:07:44
  • Bad Date Turned Hostage Situation
    Feb 10, 2025 – 01:08:37
  • Leave Him (And His Mom)!
    Feb 3, 2025 – 01:04:23
  • Dragon Rider Smut and "The Most Valuable Thing A Wife Can Do For Her Man"
    Jan 27, 2025 – 39:43
  • The Difference Between An Age Gap and A Predator
    Jan 20, 2025 – 01:00:08
  • Chesko Is Old Like Men's Excuses
    Jan 13, 2025 – 51:49
  • Give Me Free Candy!
    Dec 24, 2024 – 55:53
  • Chesko Enters His Soft Girl Era!
    Dec 16, 2024 – 01:01:49
  • AITA For Cancelling Xmas?
    Dec 9, 2024 – 58:49
  • Faking Your Death To Cheat On Your Wife?
    Dec 2, 2024 – 48:44
  • Real Men Wear Makeup!
    Nov 25, 2024 – 01:00:57
  • Misogynist Memes From The Worst People On The Internet
    Nov 18, 2024 – 58:09
  • The Best Advice I Was Given As A New Teacher
    Nov 11, 2024 – 03:23
  • Our Spooky Post-Halloween / Pre-Election Show
    Nov 5, 2024 – 53:55
  • I Can't Get You Coffee Because I'm Just a Widdle Baby
    Oct 28, 2024 – 52:40
  • Should You Treat Your Partner Like A Cat?
    Oct 22, 2024 – 47:22
  • Hurricanes, Misinformation, And The Needs for Refunds
    Oct 14, 2024 – 49:27
  • "Should I Feel Bad About Stealing Food From My Sick Wife?"
    Oct 7, 2024 – 50:39
  • Are Skidmarks...Peak Masculinity? (with Caylee Cresta)
    Sep 30, 2024 – 54:29
  • Work Wives, Cart Girls, And The Older Men Who Love To Harass Them
    Sep 23, 2024 – 01:00:01
  • "My Husband Doesn't Want Me To Breastfeed In Front Of His Family"
    Sep 17, 2024 – 55:36
  • Is This The Worst Response To Getting Called Out Ever?
    Sep 9, 2024 – 57:27
  • AITA For Asking My Wife To Do Her Responsibilities?
    Sep 2, 2024 – 01:02:01
  • Leave Chappell Roan Alone!
    Aug 26, 2024 – 59:00
  • The Paris Olympics Gets The Gold In Epic F*** Ups
    Aug 19, 2024 – 01:04:50
  • Gentle Parenting Elon Musk (with Mrs. Frazzled)
    Aug 12, 2024 – 01:01:54
  • Is Instagram Responsible For My Wife Wanting To Leave Me?
    Aug 5, 2024 – 55:15
  • Kitties, Cliffs, and Creeps On The Internet
    Jul 29, 2024 – 01:03:44
  • Cheating For The Lord
    Jul 23, 2024 – 01:04:31
  • "Raw-Dogging" A Flight Is NOT What You Think It Is
    Jul 15, 2024 – 01:10:58
  • I Guess We're Talking About The "Hawk Tuah Girl" This Week
    Jul 8, 2024 – 01:08:54
  • How Do We Impact Young People In A Better Way? (with Jamyle Cannon)
    Jul 1, 2024 – 44:06
  • I Was Your Friend For Three Years And You Still Won't Date Me?!
    Jun 24, 2024 – 01:07:37
  • Are You Looking To Date...Or Find A New Mommy?
    Jun 17, 2024 – 01:01:09
  • The Dirty Little Secret of Men's Dirty Drawers
    Jun 10, 2024 – 01:17:24
  • Would You Rather Tell Your Feelings To A Woman Or A Tree
    Jun 3, 2024 – 01:14:16
  • Forget Your Medal, Take Your Children
    May 27, 2024 – 01:08:06
  • Taylor Swift's Boyfriend's Least Important Teammate Goes To College
    May 20, 2024 – 01:09:56
  • 1 Phone Call, 1 Rejection, 1 Truly Unhinged Voicemail
    May 13, 2024 – 01:15:59
  • Would You Rather Be Stuck In The Forest With A Man Or A Bear? (Part 2)
    May 5, 2024 – 38:41
  • Would You Rather Be Stuck In The Forest With A Man Or A Bear? (Part 1)
    Apr 29, 2024 – 43:13
  • Don't Do The Sexism (with Dr. Roxanne Felig)
    Apr 22, 2024 – 01:08:23
  • So...I Almost Died.
    Apr 14, 2024 – 01:14:54
  • Who Pays For The First Date?
    Apr 7, 2024 – 55:49
  • Simping For Your Girlfriend
    Apr 1, 2024 – 57:28
Recent Reviews
  • K-PopLove14
    Grounding
    I’ve followed Chesko’s (the Speech Prof.) social media for a long time and, especially in today’s political climate and hate filled society, this podcast is so refreshing and grounding. Love you both and grateful for the community you’ve built 🤗
  • MiucaDC
    These podcasts should be mandatory in MS and HS
    Love the themes and the way they address the issues. I am sharing this with my adolescent daughter AND son.
  • BrokenOregon
    Thank you
    I wish I had all this info when I was 12. I’ve been listening for a year but this episode on age gap really hit home. I was 12 when I was “dating” my resource officer/ deputy from my school. I think he was in his 30’s. I forwarded a link to this episode to everyone single girl/woman in my life under 30 in hopes they can hear this message and learn what I didn’t know to protect myself then. Please never stop putting out content. You never know how many lives you’ve changed or saved. Thank you!
  • IAmFree111
    You know all my secret secrets
    I don’t know if I should call it triggered or feeling personally called out?! Your latest episode “faking my death…” was like hearingYOUR commentary on MY life. My ex embezzle $20,000 behind my back, used it to run around and cheat on me, and he was on the dating apps in our local area with his real picture and name. And I only caught him because an old friends grown daughter saw him on “Are we dating the same guy” Facebook group. I’m free now. Life is never been so good. I love this podcast. Everything you said in this episode was 100% accurate. you’re both so intelligent and wise. Thank you for everything you do. Keep up the good work. Hopefully your podcast saves some other women from going through what I went through.❣️
  • Akina Jewel Sky Merrick
    One my favorite podcasts
    I started watching Chesko on Facebook and then was introduced to Regan through the Manhater and Mr. Pickme through the YouTube videos so I am slowly working through all of the back issues of the podcast which has been a fun little adventure. Because of this podcast I found F The Nice Guy with Regan and I am genuinely sad that I didn’t know about that show until now, it’s so much of what I am already wanting to learn and hear more about so thank you for doing both Regan!! And thank you to Chesko for changing your podcast from the bad advice to this consistent perspective and conversations with Regan. It’s been a wild ride that I am enjoying immensely. As much as the earlier episodes with different people is fun, I love the change of having it be a podcast with you co-hosting!!
  • XxPharosXx
    Awesome vibes all around
    It’s always a fun time listening to this podcast, and it’s also very eye-opening to listen to. I thought that I had a pretty good understanding of how toxic some behaviors can be, but somehow, listening to Regan and Chesko break down exactly how toxic that toxic behavior is makes it hit home even harder just how bad it is.
  • MommaKari
    Disabling the Patriarchy… and laughing along the way
    This is one of my favorite podcasts. It is so refreshing to hear them banter and unpack the toxic masculinity that finds itself on our FYPs… I follow them both separately and I was sooo happy when they joined forces!! Keep up the great work!!
  • Sara P 876
    My Favorite
    These two are my favorites! I love the commentary and have a good laugh at least one with every episode. They’re so good at pointing out the hypocrisy in a funny and sarcastic way. Thank you both for the laughs. I look forward to listening every week!
  • MacX.Dmg
    I laugh
    The content is current, and the personality is amazing. I laugh every time I listen, and I learn something, and sometimes cringe. It’s worth it, so much so that I’m hoping for a mug. Writing a review on Apple should be easier, 2 stars for Apple podcast review writing.
  • MakeMineMarvel86
    Thank you
    For providing us with verbiage on how to explain these points to the average person. You both provide important validation on questionable behavior, especially when the victims often gaslight their own feelings.
  • Ljime028
    What a breath of fresh air!
    I love hearing their reasoning and reactions to all the insanity in this world. Thank you for creating this 🙏🏻
  • Eire V
    What started as lol’s on insta has turned into so much more
    Title says it.. I came to this show via instagram, and am so grateful for it. The way that this show breaks down these complex issues has given me the vocabulary to teach my preteen how to arm herself against misogyny. Thank you thank you thank you!
  • Sassy_Cassie77
    OBSESSED & Won’t Shut up about it!
    I’m obsessed with this podcast and have binged it harder than the new season of Bridgerton on Netflix. I also can’t seem to shut up about it. I think I referred over half a dozen people to this podcast just in that last two days. Both hosts are HILARIOUS, down to earth, and so REAL that you can’t help but relate to them. I have even journaled about some of the quotes and points they’ve made as part of my DEIB learning journey. I love that through them I have also found other podcasts to listen to and am so grateful. Can’t wait for the newest episode!
  • Fast results
    Can’t stop won’t stop
    I love this show and can’t stop listening. Thank you both so much for saying what needs to be said.
  • StormMyst
    My ‘washing dishes’ favorite!
    This is the podcast I play when I’m doing all the household chores. Ironic…sometimes but hey it makes the work go by faster because I’m engaged mentally with something way more entertaining!
  • TxAggieAbby12
    Entertaining and Thoughtful
    The perspectives both of the hosts bring to current events are interesting and they're fun to listen to. Adding to my regular podcast rotation!
  • grace1ridgon9
    My fav Tiktokers
    This podcast and F The Nice Guy are my two favorites for a long drive! They have the best banter it feels like I’m sitting in the car with my two besties ❤️
  • Murphy08801
    Fearlessly smart and enlightened
    Timely social commentary disguised as casual banter!
  • Tiff Tiff 626
    Mr. Pick-Me + Manhater = Magic ✨
    Chesko and Regan’s content separately are absolute gold. But together, it’s just magic! ✨🦄🧚🏽‍♂️ Mr. Pick-me and the Manhater hits the sweet spot of “we have to laugh so we don’t cry” when looking at issues that are tough to talk about in our daily lives but desperately need to be part of the broader conversation. I look forward to each new episode and will definitely be jumping on the Patreon!
  • Disgusting2
    Great!
    Hilarious and thoughtful. A pleasure to listen
  • BeingEpileptic
    Funny and enjoyable
    I was so excited when you both announced this podcast. Two of my favorite content creators. Your voices and humor get me through long car rides and helps distract me from getting car sick.
  • Newmomlovestocook2017
    Amazing!
    I just found you all through Instagram and you all are so awesome! Keep up the good work!
  • 68HollyA
    Excellent content, subpar sound quality
    I really enjoy the content, but there is such a difference in sound quality between the hosts I have to keep adjusting the volume. Chesko, can you please get the same equipment as Regan?
  • nikki_pops
    Love this
    Love hearing you on my way to work. Learning new things all the time!
  • SadieMBeagle
    Top Notch and Hilarious!
    As a Certified Manhater™️ myself, this is the show I’ve been looking for! It’s probably the funniest podcast I’ve ever heard. And it begs the question- do butthurt men have a script? Why do they all say the SAME THINGS?! Everyone who dates or is vulnerable to men should listen to this podcast. It will help you see that it really isn’t you, it’s them! Carry on, Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!
  • paifepaigepaige
    I love this podcast
    I listen to these ALL DAY while I’m at work. I wish we could have them 2X a week!!
  • yogimamabeara
    Talking sense
    Love this and love that my teenage daughters are able to listen to this to help them unpack the world they are beginning to experience.
  • ShannaS999999999999
    ❤️
    ❤️
  • Anaaht
    Refreshing dicussions
    I always enjoy heartfelt discussion on hard topics. I feel like I always learn something new with each podcast.
  • Michael Anderson
    Informative and fun!
    I love Regan and Chesko from their work on TikTok and the F the Nice Guy Podcast, and was so happy when they started a dedicated show. Each week they dig into important and underexplored topics with a sensitivity and humor that makes me excited for each new episode. Love it!
  • BGraetz
    Love the pod!
    Love the pod, keep being rockstars!
  • Harvey Butthole
    Sexist much?
    Imagine a podcaster who goes by “woman hater”
  • Sisterjessie
    Interesting and funny
    I love this podcast. The balance is just perfect. Their experiences and opinions are varied and enlightening. Shining really important views on relevant topics.
  • baileys8088
    Disappointed at the change
    Love Chesko, but Reagan grates on my nerves after a bit. One episode or so is fine, but I won’t be listening anymore because it’s just too much.
  • Nerdy Plant Nerd
    A lot of fun
    This is such a fun show. Chesko's warm personality and top notch guests make this an excellent listen. Also, I'm immediately incorporating every bit of advice I hear into my everday life. Should go great!
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